There is this thing with Facebook status reminders, like it keeps showing you what your status was last year this time. It has its goods and bads. I mean seriously who wants to be reminded of a break-up or a bad day at work last year. But sometimes it can be good too. Like this morning on my page it said, that last year this time I was writing down my wedding vows !!!
I was smiling thinking of those days. Both of us had thought it would be really easy. But even after 3 days when our notes were blank we knew it would be a task :) :). About the usual vows I do have a problem. Like in some customs a bride has to vow that if death strikes she will go ahead of the husband !!! Kyu bhai...tamasha hai kya??? You know I think this is the most selfish vow a bride can make. What do you mean I will go ahead of you?? Because then this contradicts your other vow which is ....In sickness and health...aarey what will your husband do if he falls sick...who will take care of him? Who will be next to him when he comes home tired and wants to sit and chit chat? Second wife??? Nooooo nahi kabhi nahi... Mera pati sirf mera hai O_O. So this vow was definetly not going to be on my list.
It was not only me. Even Ritchie had a problem. I will provide for my wife. lol even writing this statement makes me laugh so hard. He was like...listen yaar I will provide whatever is in my means... Look at the rates of your damn lipsticks and bags ek mahine ka ration aa jayega ismein to.... :D :D :D. Seriously when we were dating he has never seen me with a bag. Jeans, T & sneakers, with money and mobile tucked away in the pockets. But during marriage my lovely bridesmaid decides I need to have a bag, sandal, makeup etc., for every occasion. Frankly Ritchie is scared of her even now, but I adore her :) :). So this vow was also not going to make it to the list.
By the time we were about to reach the D-Day we did not have anything ready. So we smartly decided on one thing. We put down all the usual vows, even the ones we did not approve of with a * mark.
I promise ** Conditions Apply :D :D :D